This step is about actually giving back what does not belong to you, and let the rightful person own it. In this step, I will:
“Thank you so much for last Friday's workshop. I can speak from personal experience that it was truly transformative.”
“Dear Ming, I got the job! Thank you so very much for your support over the summer. Your warmth and kindness really comforted me at a time when I needed it. I also took your advice to heart and printed out all of the positive emails that I received from delivering good work, and carried them with me to my second interview. If helped me remember the good work I have done in the past. Ming, I wish you continued success in your private practice. If I ever need someone to talk to again, I will be sure to get in touch with you.”
"In my recent family constellation with Ming I got to experience her great gentleness and expertise as a counsellor, who deeply cares about her clients. Ming's kindness, compassion and professionalism were very important to me in the process of releasing an old burden that I had not been aware I was still carrying. Through the work we did I felt a definite internal shift and a sense of relief and overall lightness after our session. Ming's follow-up guidelines helped me in making the most out of the session and integrating the work we had done. I can highly recommend Ming as a counsellor and expert in family constellations."